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Kristen Howerton: World's Okayest Mom
August 11, 2020
- 30:19
Parenting isn't always Instagram-worthy, but the American myth of perfectionism rarely shows that messy middle. Kristen Howerton, mom of...
Rachael Denhollander: The Pursuit of Justice
August 4, 2020
- 31:23
What do we do when the institutions that are supposed to protect us, fail? As a child, Rachael Denhollander was sexually abused by USA...
Ray Hinton: The Sun Does Shine
July 28, 2020
- 41:48
Ray Hinton spent 30 years on death row for a crime he didn’t commit. With the help of justice lawyer Bryan Stevenson, Ray won his...
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Life isn't always bright and shiny, as Kate Bowler knows. Kate is a young mother, writer and professor who, at age 35, was suddenly diagnosed with Stage IV cancer. In, warm, insightful, often funny conversations, Kate talks with people about what they've learned in dark times. Kate teaches at Duke Divinity School and is author of "Everything Happens (And Other Lies I've Loved)."
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Kristen Howerton: World's Okayest Mom
August 11, 2020
- 30:19
Parenting isn't always Instagram-worthy, but the American myth of perfectionism rarely shows that messy middle. Kristen Howerton, mom of...
Rachael Denhollander: The Pursuit of Justice
August 4, 2020
- 31:23
What do we do when the institutions that are supposed to protect us, fail? As a child, Rachael Denhollander was sexually abused by USA...
Ray Hinton: The Sun Does Shine
July 28, 2020
- 41:48
Ray Hinton spent 30 years on death row for a crime he didn’t commit. With the help of justice lawyer Bryan Stevenson, Ray won his...
Justin Yopp & Don Rosenstein: The Magic of WE
July 21, 2020
- 36:08
When a group of young moms died around the same time, clinicians Justin Yopp and Don Rosenstein wanted to refer their widowed spouses to...
Heather Lanier: Whole and Holy
July 14, 2020
- 34:53
What if your life hasn’t turn out like you thought it would? When writer Heather Lanier’s daughter was born with a rare genetic...
Timothy Omundson & Joel McHale: Flying Buttresses
July 7, 2020
- 42:31
Timothy Omundson knows what it feels like to have well-made plans come apart after he suffered a massive stroke at the height of his...
Jason Rosenthal: Blank Space
June 30, 2020
- 27:54
When Jason Rosenthal’s wife died, she left him a gift that he couldn’t even have known to ask for—in the form of a viral Modern Love...
Sarah Bessey: Ordinary Miracles
June 23, 2020
- 34:37
Sarah Bessey speaks right to the soft spot where our deepest pain and deepest hope meet. The place where in the bleakest of nights we...
Hillary McBride: Living Inside Our Bodies
June 16, 2020
- 37:43
Is fear avoidable? What does this emotion do to our bodies and minds? In this episode, Kate speaks with psychologist Hillary McBride on...
Mia Birdsong: Community as a Verb
June 9, 2020
- 32:29
There's a story we're told about how we should save ourselves through sheer grit. But many fall on the other side of that success...
Wes Moore: Fork in the Road
June 2, 2020
- 35:27
Wes Moore had a rough childhood growing up in Baltimore. His father died when he was a child, he struggled in school and was arrested...
Gary Haugen: Joy is The Oxygen
May 26, 2020
- 31:54
Certain people decide to make other people's pain their own. Gary Haugen, founder and CEO of International Justice Mission, is one of...
Wajahat Ali: Make Me A Gardener
May 19, 2020
- 34:33
Wajahat Ali was about to give a TED talk on the global case for having more kids, when he received news no parent should ever hear. Kate...
David Fajgenbaum: Hope Wears Sneakers
May 12, 2020
- 33:37
This is the story of one young doctor’s race against the clock as he searches for a cure for his own rare disease that brought him to...
Lori Gottlieb: Does My Pain Count?
May 5, 2020
- 33:20
How do we find joy and connection when tragedy surrounds us? In this episode, Kate speaks with bestselling author and psychotherapist...
Glennon Doyle: The Love Bridge
April 28, 2020
- 34:36
We need guides to walk with us when life goes a little off-script. In this episode, Kate speaks with bestselling author Glennon Doyle...
Sunita Puri: The Uncertainty Specialist
April 21, 2020
- 36:16
Pain is like a geography—one that isn't foreign to palliative care physician, Dr. Sunita Puri. Kate and Sunita speak about needing new...
The Emergency Button
March 31, 2020
- 43:46
When fear is overwhelming, sometimes you need to press the button—the emergency button. In this special episode, Kate gets real with the...
Ari Johnson: More than Enough
December 3, 2019
- 31:29
Sometimes everything is possible. Sometimes nothing is possible. How do you know the difference? Dr. Ari Johnson works to change the...
Angela Duckworth: Finding the Margins
November 19, 2019
- 33:41
Psychologist Angela Duckworth studies the significance of grit. There are those who experience a difficult circumstance and scrape by,...
Vivek Murthy: The Loneliness Epidemic
November 5, 2019
- 26:45
US Surgeon General Dr. Vivek Murthy embarked on a listening tour to determine what was ailing Americans. The answer surprised him. In...
Jen Hatmaker: The Preacher's Wife
October 22, 2019
- 24:27
Author and speaker Jen Hatmaker ruled the Christian marketplace as the evangelical darling. But when her theology shifted, she learned...
Sister Helen Prejean: The Face of Love
October 8, 2019
- 25:08
Sister Helen Prejean didn't know what she was getting into when she became pen pals with an inmate on death row, a story told in the...
Nora McInerny: It's Okay to Laugh
September 24, 2019
- 33:40
Nora McInerny had a miscarriage, lost her father, and lost her husband all within a few weeks. Much to her surprise, she kept living....
Sesame Street: How do we talk to kids about hard things?
August 13, 2019
- 34:02
How do we prepare our kids for a world we can't always protect them from? Sesame Street creates educational programs to make the most...
Andrew Solomon: The Stories of Who We Are
July 30, 2019
- 30:54
Writer Andrew Solomon never felt like he fit in. But studying other communities that celebrate differences transformed his sense of...
Jerome Adams: We Belong to Each Other
July 16, 2019
- 25:14
US Surgeon General Dr. Jerome Adams is committed to combatting the rising fatalities from opioids because he knows the struggle too...
John Swinton: The Speed of Love
July 2, 2019
- 32:57
The quality of time depends on our abilities and disabilities, possibilities and limitations. In a world of speed and productivity, Kate...
BJ Miller: Loving What Is
June 18, 2019
- 30:06
After an accident left BJ Miller with a serious physical disability, he had to learn how to be patient with his limitations. Now, he’s a...
John Green: Chronic Not Curable
June 4, 2019
- 30:10
Society likes to tell the narrative of sick to healthy. But what if there are things we can’t just get over? In his novel, Turtles All...
Kelly Corrigan: Tell Me More
May 21, 2019
- 32:52
When bestselling author Kelly Corrigan experienced the death of her dad and dear friend back-to-back, she couldn’t shake the feeling...
How to Grieve Well (Special Conversation)
May 12, 2019
- 14:53
What can we expect in the first moments of loss? How is it possible to grieve someone we may have never met? How can we best support...
Jayson Greene: The Language of Grief
May 7, 2019
- 36:18
When Jayson Greene’s two-year-old daughter died in a random tragedy, he was forced to find a way forward. What does it look like to hope...
Mark Lukach: True Believers
December 18, 2018
- 34:15
Mark Lukach felt like he was hit with a tsunami when his beautiful marriage was upended by mental illness. With one diagnosis, he lost...
Barbara Brown Taylor: Life after Dark
December 4, 2018
- 31:19
Author and Episcopal priest Barbara Brown Taylor is no stranger to darkness. After experiencing devastating loss, Barbara explores our...
Emily McDowell: There's No Good Card for That
November 20, 2018
- 30:46
Why is it so hard to say the right thing to those going through difficult circumstances? Artist Emily McDowell was on the receiving end...
Alan Alda: Can You Hear Me Now?
March 20, 2018
- 33:53
Alan Alda is best known for his prolific acting career. But he has also spent years learning about, and teaching, communication. The...
Wes Moore: Fork in the Road
March 13, 2018
- 34:37
Wes Moore had a rough childhood growing up in Baltimore. His father died when he was a child, he struggled in school and was arrested...
Margaret Feinberg: Joyful, Anyway
March 6, 2018
- 29:43
Bestselling author and speaker Margaret Feinberg was writing a book about joy when her world fell apart. Suddenly she was fighting for...
Alexandra Petri: Awkward
February 20, 2018
- 26:13
Washington Post columnist Alexandra Petri is the queen of awkwardness. She didn't audition for "America's Next Top Model" and become a...
Lucy Kalanithi: Costly Love
February 14, 2018
- 29:19
When Lucy Kalanithi fell for another doctor, she couldn't know how much love would teach her about suffering. Lucy Kalanithi is the...
Ray Barfield: This is Going to Hurt Just a Little
February 10, 2018
- 45:15
Dr. Ray Barfield knew when he entered the field of pediatric oncology that he was going to have an unusually tough day job. Some kids...
Nadia Bolz-Weber: The Insight of Outsiders
February 6, 2018
- 35:37
Before Nadia Bolz-Weber became famous as a foul-mouthed pastor and bestselling author, she was an alcoholic and stand-up comedian. This...
Everything Happens: Series Preview
January 26, 2018
- 01:59
Life isn't always bright and shiny, as Kate Bowler knows. Kate is a young mother, writer and professor who, age 35, Kate, was suddenly...
